Memorial Day



The Maine Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Caribou was dedicated on June 1, 2003. The land was graciously donated by John and Joyce Noble of Caribou -- 33.4 acres. Together with devoted veterans, their generosity provides a final resting place for those who faithfully served this country.

These are heroes that believed the tenets of American democracy was well worth dying for. Their noble sacrifice is a rhetorical reproach to the entitlement of this current generation. While we claim our freedom, be mindful that thousands have laid down their lives for our peace. The suffering these veterans endured is tattooed on their soul.

So here's the thing, all of these souls came from many different backgrounds and beliefs. Yet they had one thing in common, they loved America enough to die for her. As you gather with friends and family this weekend, recognize and remember those who sacrificed so much for so many. Consider ways you can demonstrate that by:

Exercise:
Make a phone call, schedule a visit, or write a Thank You note to a Veterans, you know.
Offer your talents and skills to help someone who has lost a loved one in battle.
Pay your respects at a local cemetery and place flags or flowers on the graves of fallen soldiers.
Fly the American flag at half-staff until noon.
Participate in the National Moment of Remembrance at 3:00 pm. Pause and think upon the meaning of Memorial Day.
Pray for a blessing on America and ask for protection over all branches of our military.

My Life's Lesson: Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the ability to handle the conflict by peaceful means. And as much as it is possible, live peaceably among each other. Because the things we do outlast our mortality. 

I share your tremendous loss and offer my deepest gratitude and appreciation for the ultimate sacrifices that have been made. This is my brother's resting place. There's no more pain.

From the sweetest spot in my heart to yours, may you and your family have good memories of your loved ones as you honor their sacrifice.

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